He just accused me of not wanting to blame myself for our failed marriage; I would rather blame another person.
Mattie, Mattie,Mattie
Blame others? What has he done to "fix" the problem? Move out? You were probably like the rest of us part of the problem. But unlike our spouses, we came here, we went for counseling, we have bought books to try to "Fix" the problem our spouses just went to the OP. I still have a hard time understanding why I am the one doing the time when they are the one that did the crime. ( Pretty good huh) seriously In the beginning god created no wait that is another story, I the beginning of my sitch I told my wife I did not want her to call the OM she told me She will do what she wants. But.....IF I CALLED AND TALKED TO HIM "IT'S OVER". Ok let me get this strength. It’s not ok for me to tell her who she can talk to but it's ok for her to tell me who I can talk to? Mattie Sometimes I don't think they are really "Lying" I think they have "Self Talked" them selves in to believing what they are saying.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
