Hi Ellie,

Thanks for posting.

Yeah... I'm finally getting my self esteem up enough to realize your first point. I really hope the MC can help with this, I'm at a loss.

I am fairly confident it wasn't H who called the appraiser as I heard the answering machine message, and the guy both had my name and sounded like he had talked to me before. It was a weird message, he said something about hoping I got home safely too?? And please call to make an appt. I also don't think H would be dumb enough to give our home # if he was trying to pull something - he usually gives people his cell #. It hadn't occurred to me it might be her, though. Is it sick that part of me hopes so??


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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