OT-You were right about not giving H the articles--I am still struggling with the control thing, and will have to get a MUCH better handle on that if/when H decides to do some work.
I was looking at them myself when I read Nikki's post. It is naive, but I hadn't read anything on infidelity before the last week or so, because I was CONVINCED that my H would never do that. I will never doubt that inner voice again. I don't know if the acceptence earlier would have helped me at all, but I do feel stronger now, knowing and accepting (not agreeing with) the truth.
Nikki, take care of you today. If not a hotel, a girlfriend's house for the night? Hope you feel better...
