I would do everything to save the house. If need be, then get a housemate to share the expenses. He is being hasty. I felt the same way when I first kicked out my H. Boy, am I glad I still have my home now! It has really helped me to stay more stable. I mean this whole process is an upheaval already. Yes, it is difficult to make payments alone but I have figured on taking a student boarder who is willin to pay a lot if I drive her to school. It may cut down on my privacy but at least I can redecorate and pay the bills. And hopefully, if I want, my H might come home someday. I am not holding my breath. And he is making me sick, but we'll be patient and see. The real estate market here is very bad for sellers.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."