H's bday is coming up. I would like to send a card. This would be the first contact since Father's Day. The card would be generic but I am thinking of saying this on the inside:

I can't say I understand why you don't want anything to do with myself or DD, especially DD, but I do wish you happiness and hope everything is going well. Have a wonderful bday.

Too much guilt? should I just say HB and leave it go at that?

Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.

bomb: Jan 25, 2006
not seen since
DD moved in with H - 9/1/08
H filed for divorce - 11/2008
Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010
still nothing