Bam, best of luck. You can do it! As much as it was unfullfilling to be married to a Vulcan, I would have hated being married to Mr. Look-At-Me. One trick with the attorney is to let her say her spiel first and then ask your questions. (Note I am assuming you have a female attorney!) It goes much faster and you get to ask more questions in the end. Bring a list of questions with you and as she answers them, fill them in. You won't remember later if you don't.
Struggling, you know it wasn't really seven years. It just felt like it. If you really want to meet me, here is an intelligence test for you. Using the info in my old threads, you should know exactly where and when you could easily meet me. If that is too hard, you can always change your profile. I am up for making as many new friends as possible, even ones who happen to be male. I am no longer that vulnerable female I once was. I am planning on joining eHarmony this fall and having some fun in my life.
Of course in my heart, I am hoping IMP will take a road trip to come interview his potential sister wife and help me celebrate my freedom after August. We could watch old movies and have some great political/religious debates!
Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years MLC Divorced 10/3/07 Married to a wonderful new man.