Oh, and I don't think it's indifference you're describing, but detachment. It sounds like your W is realizing that, in your mind, you're ready to move on without her if you have to. That might be what's pulling her back in.

The old, "I want what I can't have/fear losing" thinking. Just a thought, but there may be an element of that in her movements back to you.

Not sure that makes total sense, but, there you go ;\)

BD

My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.