Lessons from a former WAS

[sadhearted]

Your right it took both of us to get to where we are today. After he left I sat down and looked at how I was acting or what I was saying and I realized I was at fault also. I've apologized and owned up to my mistakes. He tells me sometimes he thinks I get it and other times he thinks I still don't know what the problems are. I'm working to better myself so that I won't be the same person as before. I'm hoping one day he'll decide he can trust me again and come home. Sometimes it's really hard to act as if. Until then I'm just not sure if there's anything I can do or say that will help him trust me again or if this is something he's going to have to figure out on his own and I need to just leave him alone.

Oh he did say to me just because I (him) changed doesn't mean you (me) can.