My goal is to have a good day and experience in my life REGARDLESS of what does happen. I W wants to focus on negative, let her own it, not me. Yes, I will listen and if asked help with any problems, but I will not let it bring me down. Too often I have tried to solve her problems, but I don't think sometimes W wants them solved. W enjoys the misery of being a Martyr too much. Doesn't sit on me well, so I'll let it go.
