Let's see probably WOA, mix in a little listening ear followed by acts of service. However, you have to pretty stealth about it in the earlier days, she would turn cold if she picked up on the fact that you were trying to talk her LL. This days I just make sure she knows I appreciate what she does do, listen to what she says, then do things that help her out.
Does it turn her on? Not really, but at least it makes her less Martyr. This is her trigger point, if she feels like she's being dumped on, she gets upset, offended. Yes W does work hard, but lets just say sometimes I think she works it too hard. Let's see, if you think it's hard now, try to go it alone.
