Hey all, Thanks for your responses. I'd posted this elswhere and a couple of posters helped me to rewrite it as the edited version above. They'd asked for more details also and came up with the edited version. My Oddesey is chronicled here: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...&gonew=1#UNREAD
I have already started divorce proceedings, actually, we did jointly. I am moving out this weekend. Although a funny thing happened on the way to the forum, as in this edited email I sent to a friend:
There has been some more drama at the Bobelina House: She called the FOM at his work today. FOM hung up on her. Told his FBS. Then the FBS called me. We talked awhile. This was the straw that broke the camels back.
I called my WS at work and told/asked her not to come back home. Told her the kids and I are leaving. We are taking all our things. We are not coming back. That I was now going to seek sole custody and have her evaluated before I let the children see her. The "evaluation" thing seemed to scare her. I stood my ground.
She called back later and tried to tell me I was overreacting, etc. I STOOD MY GROUND. No, I said. I am not overreacting. I told her that with her destructive behaviors and decision making this last year and a half, that I now feared for the childrens safety. And they are leaving with me.
I told/asked her to stay away at least until Wednesday as the children and I will be out on Tuesday. Or else I will involve the authorities. ------ So this letter is the "Goodbye" but "If you get your s**it together" letter. Hope that helps.
