bobelina,
I have a question, If you give her this letter will you start proceedings or give her time time to come around?

These letters scare the hell out of me. I dont want to ever have to write one. The way things are going I may.

I also agree that your list is to much at the end of your letter.

LS

Me 37 W 37
D21 D17 D12 S8
grandparents 7/07 boy
Married 16 yrs last June 07
Bomb dropped 4/07

"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt