Interesting news...part 3

[inmyplace]

GK,

Are you putting this off?

[GK99]

GK,

Are you putting this off?

Not really, but I'm also not racing for the finish line either. I have been very busy and it would have been near impossible to take time off work to have an appraiser come this week. I have cleared my calendar for tomorrow - I will sit down and set up appointments. I want a couple of real estate agents to take a look at the house too.

I am meeting with my manager this week to discuss a transfer to Ontario.

I have always been the "methodical" type when making any decisions...this is no different. I do not operate at the same pace as W...that much is certain.

[lawless]

OK, here is a jaded Lawless reply..............

On the e-mail about moving back, "you can't get in the house the locks heve been changed etc. On the appraisal, It will be done when it's done and no you will not be invited.

Here is a standing Lawless reply..............

ummmmmmm nope can't think of anything to suggest.

You gotta keep following your heart GK. Do what feels right and see what happens. This DB stuff works but the odds are against us so bearing that in mind keep working on yourself, thats a guaranteed win!

[bambam1970]

Here is a standing Lawless reply..............

ummmmmmm nope can't think of anything to suggest.

LMAO Lawless! That is just very funny!

GK,

Remember this is your life and YOU control it. You don't have to be an ass, but you don't have to be too accomodating to meet her requests. At your own pace, GK!

I hope you are feeling stronger. Thank you for you very kind post to me last weekend. I've read it a few times just b/c it really gives me strength and encouragement.

GK, you too are an amazing person b/c you are taking a shi**y situation and making it about how you can better yourself. Very attractive to a woman!

[GK99]

Hi Bambam...nice to hear from you.

what do you want? Do you have an idea of how you really feel about this one?

I am still working out what it is that I really want. I am planning to move back to Ontario but I don't think I will be out of here by September 1st. Having W in this house while I am here would be impossible. I won't let that happen. I told her last month that I will not be inconvenienced so she doesn't have to be. Her choices led to this, not mine.

Maybe it will get a little difficult for her if she is in "limbo". Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, what a shame

I agree with you...limbo land might be good for her.

Laugh, laugh, laugh. Find humor wherever you can b/c that is what keeps us standing tall!

Very true. I can't help but laugh when I get emails from W...

[inmyplace]

lawless,

You hit it with the guaranteed win idea.

GK,

Just had to ask. But since you asked what you should tell her, I say if asked a question just answer truthfully.

[bambam1970]

Very true. I can't help but laugh when I get emails from W...

Oh I know! My H says some of the damndest things! He calls often...I answer sometimes. My sister said "He couldn't be any more clingy".....great!

But since you asked what you should tell her, I say if asked a question just answer truthfully.

Yes.

[GK99]

"you can't get in the house the locks heve been changed etc. On the appraisal, It will be done when it's done and no you will not be invited.

LOL...how about "house, what house?"...

This DB stuff works but the odds are against us so bearing that in mind keep working on yourself, thats a guaranteed win!

Exactly right...

[GK99]

Remember this is your life and YOU control it. You don't have to be an ass, but you don't have to be too accomodating to meet her requests. At your own pace, GK!

Definitely the hard part - not being an ass. I so want to be an ass!!

Thank you for you very kind post to me last weekend. I've read it a few times just b/c it really gives me strength and encouragement.

You're welcome bambam. You keep my hope alive - hope that I will be okay!

Very attractive to a woman!

Now if only I were taller...