oh, I think, although it was an indirect convo, that you did really well. It was great to hear you say "did you want to talk about this now, or tuesday". If you hadn't of done that, I could see a potential "fight" coming.

I agree that you should tell H that you would like to go together first and you guys can arrange times for separate sessions then.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."