OT- oh, I WAS talking about satisfying me... the part about doing "you know what" by myself right by him and making sure he knew what was going on.

The other stuff, ya, about him, but thought it could help since she's gotten "turned down".

Nikki- now that you've made more specific reasons that H IS self conscious about his "ability", that it probably WOULD be a good idea to try out the, fullfill your own fantasy with him watching, or at least right next to you. I never could feel comfortable with him watching, but he's always right next to me and definitely knows what Im doing, and a lot of time he'll be caressing me on my arm or leg or something.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."