still waiting tohear other opinions on this. I went to the family court system today to see about getting temporary sole custody & they dont do that! So I will seek an attorney next week,unless my H's message he left me 2nite is true. I kept the kids from him..I know some will disagree. I have no promblem him seeing them & visiting & taking them out ,but its only the sleepovers I dont agree w/. H kept calling and I ignored,but he never left a message until now. H said ok he will leave me alone & he will file this week and then the house will be sold & I will have to move out. I had emailed him yesturday that we needed to make this LEGAL once and for all since he wanted to "play house" w/ our kids and miss wanna be step mom. He also left on the message that he was taking (being sarcastic) his "other family" to Oralndo to the amusement park & she/OW was taking my ticket and was gonna be me for a day. Heck... I am use to it by now she has been "me" for god knows how long including his "islands honeymoon getaway".