This is all so confusing and horrible. My H is leaving early tomorrow to spend the day elsewhere (we can all guess where). How do I do this without losing my mind? This roomates thing is disgusting - I don't even understand how he can do it. I feel used and I am worried our DD is going to feel the effects of this. She is so happy, how do I tell him to leave until he is sure he wants to try again, is that DBing. DR just arrived today so am starting it tonight. Do I tell him to leave? Can I live with myself if I don't and how can he not know how this is killing me inside? Help - what is the right thing here!
