Yes, I am still married (technically anyway). H took his ring off which meant we were not married in his mind!!! H is waiting for me to file for D. That way we can get by with one lawyer and save money. H wants to keep as much money as he can for his entertainment pleasure. (My lawyer keeps saying one lawyer will work....as long as it's MY lawyer! )
I have hired a lawyer, but not completed the paperwork to file......we are supposed to be separated 6 months in this state before we can file. It's only been 3! Do I lie about the date and please H? I almost feel going ahead might be better for me financially. Will look at the paperwork this weekend and see what is left. I have been busy at work, looking for a new job, and just plain worrying to figure out the rest of the paperwork. I should just file....I would still have more time to figure out the finacial settlement. I will get busy and "move on" ASAP.
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