Strange, You sounded so unlike you, when you posted on my sitch, that I had to come here and see what was going on, I really want to tell you how much I appreciate all of your advice on my sitch, it takes a strong person to help someone, when they are, themselves, in such bad place, you are to be celebrated for every time you have helped me or someone on this board.
First of all, Man, I think that you are definitely getting the right advice from Nomopo, I noticed that at least there is some contact, she hasn't completely left you out in the cold, as you know I've been there, too much. As you know you have to make the most of every interaction with her, and it sound like you are. We hate the waiting game, we hate the not knowing what is on their minds, but it is a game we have no choice but to play. The D is so easy for them, and it sounds like with the way your W, is dragging her feet, she is not so sure, it is the way to go. As you know everything they do has some kind of meaning behind it, the hard part is figuring out what is really going on inside their heads and hearts. It seems like my own W wants me out to the picture so badly, that she is willing to do anything to get me there, even throw me in jail. She is running, yours is running, the hard part is letting them run till they hit that wall, we've talked about. then another hard part will be watching them hit it, and completely obliterate themselves. But since we are the better person, hopefully, we will be there to pick up the pieces, and put it all back together again.
