I know how it feels like another mini-bomb when you realized H is looking for apts. I understand it knocking you back, but you can and will recover from it. It stinks, but we have to let our WAS' do what they are going to do. I have asked myself many of the questions you just asked in your last post, especially about how H could leave his family. I'm not sure if it is that the WAS' don't think about those questions or they do, but don't want to face the answers.
