Yeah, so now you see what I am up against... OM wife is like me: refuses to commit full-blown adultery, but (UNLIKE me) would entertain an EA. She is at least as lonely as I am. We get along well... probably too well, and that is why I need to distance myself. Temptation is indeed an evil thing...

I am so glad to hear that things are improving for you. I am not where you are yet, but I am sloooowly getting there. I am less than two months into DBing, so I am still very much a greenhorn, and I am making a few mistakes still (I don't post all of my mistakes/backslides...).

Glad that you are not snooping. It's tough not to. A few minutes ago, I posted on another thread that I am a "recovering snooper." Now that I think about it, we ALL are!!! Otherwise we would not know of the affairs!

Thanks for being an inspiration to me, h. You (and so many others) give me hope.