My W OM lives 2 states away. The more I digest what happened. My W was unhappy. I think she may have thought "I was happy W XBF maybe that is the problem" The OM (XBF) just wanted a lay. He took advantage of my W. I think there is actually a law against having sex with a person that is mentally unstable. Wouldn't be a hoot if My W snapped out of it and we were able to go after him for Rape? Naw won't happen. My W is coming around. Don't think is just because of the hernia, I started to see changes before I found out. I think we may have evolving to the GOOD FRIENDS stage. I KNOW she has not seen the OM. I don't know if she calls him or he calls her. It is soooo tempting to look but I am not.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
