But if I know it's best to move on. And I have my grounds for divorce. No kids. Clean slate to work with. Why go back even if you could. Is the feeling of failure that great for everyone? I know i could be more compatible with alot of other people but that's not making it any easier. When everything points to reasons I should leave, what would make someone want to stay?
You state that you have your "grounds". You also stated that you are religious.
Tell me, exactly what "religion" are you practicing?