Madonna/Whore Complex (part 7)

[Heywyre]

But that's just the point CE - H says as much as he "knows" what the ST is telling him and can understand it, there is "nothing that can be done to change it" and it's "the way I am" and if I have to hear "it's the way I am" one more time, I will scream for sure.

Don't get me wrong, we have come a long, long way in a relatively short period of time. H acknowledges his main problem logically stems from the attachment theory (even he can't deny that) but this is where we run into his resistence to do anything about it (sounds like another Cemar to me - OMG NO!!!!!) He says it is "nice" to know what has caused all of these problems in his life but you can't change someone from what they are - of course, I TOTALLY disagree with this. I have seen so many people turn their lives around, people I wouldn't have imagined in a million years could have changed, but they did.

I keep telling him how intelligent he is and how I believe if there is anyone that can do it, he can. The response I get is "why are you trying to change me"