New to DB, need guidance

[Iamworththetime]

1st, I'm sorry for your situation, as someone who's W cheated on him I know the rage and anger your H is/was feeling. Have you ever apologized to him for the PA if not, do so, he needs to hear it and it needs to be sincere, he most likely had his out of retaliation for yours. 2nd, STOP SNOOPING, TRUST ME! You are only hurting yourself.