Just a thought, but what could your W do to let you see that there is a break through? Would it have to be a gradual build up or some major thing? I know one of my 'markers' was my H using old pet names when speaking to me. Not a break through as such, but a marker on the road. I am still waiting for H to initiate a R talk where he does all the talking and it revolves around his responsibility in the A, his acknowledgement for how it affected me and the children (causing my lack of trust), his continued lack of plugging into the M completely, and why, and so on. Not just saying sorry as a reaction to my talking to him about our R. That would be huge for me. The markers keeps one hoping, and I have loads of those, but haven't reached any major stations along the line.
Is that what you are looking for, perhaps?
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
