Lessons from a former WAS

[Kelley]

I wish that I could tell my H to come back that the kids and I do want you home but I seriously don't think that he is ready to hear that right now. I want to ask him but everybody here says that he needs to bring up the R talk. I don't know if he is still involved with this OW or how much that he is involved with her since nobody will tell me anything.

Sadhearted my H said the same thing to me when I kicked him out of the house. How long do you think it will take before we are miserable again or he is drinking again. I think that he is still unsure at this time because the day I kicked him out and we were talking about things he did ask me if I thought that our M was worth saving. I told him that I do or at least did until I found that thing he wrote about desperatley wanting to be with this OW and feeling happy again but having to pay a great price to be with her because he would be losing his kids.