Ok, we have a joint savings account. When we look up the account online it also shows that savings account as an external account. Well, when all this started I decided to delete that off of there so he couldn't see the balance. He has a problem...he sees money, he spends it. I really didn't think he would notice since he pays no attention to the money. Well, he just called. He was pissed because it wasn't showing on there. He asked me if I had pocketed the money. I told him that it was still there, but I needed to make sure that I was going to be able to take care of myself. Keep in mind that if it wasn't for me, there wouldn't be a penny in that account because he would have spent it all. Now I feel a little guilty, and also worried that he will go and get the money out. Should I get it out? I am not sure how I should have handled that.
