Lessons from a former WAS

[sadhearted]

TGF,

I am hopeful I can bring him back. We have gone to counseling in the past but he wanted no part of it before he left. Maybe if I can get him back then he'll go.

Yeah I've told him the kids and I want him back, that he's welcome to come home. I haven't said that in recent weeks. When I did say it I heard nothings changed why would I come back.

So I'm leaving him alone not talking about our R and hopefully letting him think on his own.

I just got an email from him. He wants to stop by and see the kids after work. His new job is across the street from the house... I told him that was fine.