I think the law is the same here in MA. Both names on all of our bank accounts, JT wros...but each of us can act independently. He did not do anything illegal just unfair. I am hoping he willing opens the safe and gives me my half & my jewelry or else I will have to call the police and have him forceably comply.

I have an odd feeling that he is planning on dropping his own bomb tomorrow. Weird but I think he has crossed into the LBS wanting the divorce state. We'll see. I have an appt with another atty on Thursday and depending on how the weekend goes I am probably just going to file a separation or maybe D as this might be the swift kick in the pants that he needs...Unless he has beaten me to the punch. Its just tought since all of my savings were tied up in the jt ten accts and if I don't get my half I am going to have to hit my retirement acct for the retainer...Unless atty's accept credit cards?


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.