If that's the OMW's* perspective on things, then I would suggest that you think about really limiting your communication with her. The people around us can help us in our efforts, or hurt us. I fear that she's not helping. Be kind (she's suffering too, certainly) but be firm.

* Hey, a new acronym!! \:\)

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22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07
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