Rob- Agree about snooping. As I said, it is indeed like a drug - you want it sooo bad, and you know it's not good for you in the long run... but you crave that info, you just must have it. You know what I mean... But good perspective on it being an unattractive trait. Never thought of that. I need to have that thought in my mind more often.
Nice idea about her DBing, but she won't do it. She wants him out of her life, and she wants to move 1000 miles away to where she grew up. She knows I am DBing, I have given her a link. It's just not for her.
