I do not disagree with you on that Mike. My frustration is in the fact that I will not be seeing my girls on a daily basis and because of this I have to pay my W. I do understand the money is supposed to be for my girls, but, I do not think I should have to pay anybody lump sums of money on a regular basis for keeping my girls away from me(again life is not fair - I know). She had the A, she filed for the D.... this is why I say she gets a pat on the back for destroying our family.