Mike you are right I need to let my lawyer know to get this D going. You are also right about my W's perspective about our money, it really is BS. I think that I have been fair when it comes to dividing everything up, I am just saying 50/50. I also have to wait and see about how much I will have to pay in CS.
I know life is not fair, but why do the courts pat my W on the back and say well done tearing apart your family and here is a nice parting gift? It stinks for me to think about how much her life will not change by dumping me and how much mine is changing losing my family.