Kelley,

Honestly I knew it was the wrong thing to do the next day. The physical move part. Intially I did not think of anything except what makes me feel good, I went into selfish mode from about Jan. to March moved out March 4th back in two weeks later.

The problem is I was so self absorbed in how I felt I did not take time to think of my W. and S. Once I was out which was towards the end of this phase I realized that she was trying her best, and I just kicked her in teeth by moving out on them. Some Father and husband!

Now the issue is she wants time to think and she isn't sure if she wants to be with me! (I got the talk after I came home and just thought everything should be fine speech). Then I was she would not have asked me to come home and she only let me come back because our S.

I thought about my S. and W. All the time after the move, during my self absorbed time not so much. Not proud of that either, but that is the truth.


Married:10 years
D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took
Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!