I am just wondering, why are we asking the HD men to change their LL?

Again you are not listening NO ONE asks you to change your LL.

Everyone says to see the love they are giving in the WRONG LL.

Yeah and if your wife was hear talking to us saying that she keeps doing AOS and wasn't getting a response from you, we would tell her to learn YOUR LL. But she's not here and you ARE.

Why are us guys being expected to give up our own LL, and go to some LL that is FAR less fulfilling.

You are not expected to give up your LL. You are expected to understand that your wife has a different LL. And eventually she is to learn your LL also.

Is it not the responsibility of BOTH spouses to speak the others LL.

DING DING DING. And the unfortunate thing here is that usually one person has to make the first step. And it truly sucks for you that since you are the one here you are the one who has to make the first step. I am not saying it's fair it just is what it is. Of course you could always refuse to make the first step and stay in the exact same place for another 4 years.

I just get the feeling that people are essentially giving LD women a pass on this one, that they believe that LD women can't really learn to speak the LL physical touch.

Nope don't believe that any more than I believe that you can't learn to speak AOS or WOA or whatever your wife's LL is.



But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus