I don't know about the threesome, but I will talk to the oral and anal sex. My wife only understands them as physcial acts, that I just want them because they would feel great. Of course they would feel great. Hot monkey sex is great. But as a man, I can also see it this way, her wanting me to do these acts to her means she has to be COMPLETELY comfortable and trusting in me, that she wants to REWARD me for being a good husband to her. So as you can see, sex carries a huge amount of emotional baggage. It is the emotional stuff that makes sex into making love. Hot monket sex is sex, but ML is going to the DEEPEST levels of intimacy in the mind. Obviously, so women can not get there because of their own imposed barriers.
