Cemar The reason the term frigid p*****s me off so much is that it was a term frequently used if I refused to have sex with various BF in the past. I was also told by more than one guy that I must be a lesbian because I chose not to have sex with them. These were not long term BF's maybe one or two dates and yet they felt they were entitled to have sex with me and being turned down gave them the right to label me as frigid. That is WHY the use of this word hacks me off so much.
I am neither frigid nor a lesbian and neither is your wife.