tired-
It's pretty clear to me. She is breaking up a family in order to fulfill a selfish, short-sighted need. She does put OM before all of us. She went out of town overnite to see him! Where does that put us? Yep, square behind him.

If you smack her, get her in the ass... she used to like when I did that... Now it's somebody else's turn...

Thanks for the encouragement. I sometimes feel like I am wandering in the dark.