I feel the same way.. walking on eggshells that is. Up and downs are the worst. She is being completly selfish right now, but also is confused.

Keep up what you are doing, you are stronger than you think.. I can feel it and Im only talking to you through email!

One thing that I personally abide to is my immediate family comes first before anyone else... including my own parents , that's the way its supposed to be and if she is putting the OM before you and her immediate family, I personally would like to smack her.

Sorry about that...

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.