I am still reading DR, so I am not sure on all the techniques yet. We had a car in my name that he drives. He has gotten a loan in his own name now. We split up the cell phones into two separate accounts. The only thing left that we have together is the house and the bills that go along with it. Everything else we have are individual accounts we each brought into the marriage.
He officially moved out yesterday. He moved into a house with a guy he works with, although I have no idea where it is. I guess it doesn't matter because I am not going to be going over there. Now he wants to put the house up for sale. I am not ready to sell it, however I can't pay for it by myself. I can make the payment, but I am not sure I would be able to pay insurance and taxes when due.
One of the problems I am having with this is that I am thousands of miles away from home. The few friends that I did have here have all moved away in the last two months. Once the house sells, I would have nowhere to go. I couldn't just move home because I need a job and I have a pretty good one here. Also I wouldn't want to be that far away from him. I guess I could move into an apartment, but I would need help moving all the stuff and he said he would help.
Should I go along with this? What would be the DR way? I am having trouble going along with this because I feel like this is the only connection left. We don't have kids, so there is nothing tieing us together.
