thanks CM - it sure is a bumpy ride and I am hoping it will smooth out a little but I am starting to see some changes so that's always encouraging

Unfortunately though H doesn't think he needs counselling anymore. He says he is "content and stable" and doesn't feel the need for it. However, he does admit I might still need it for a while but this ST we are going to believes in joint counselling so if I was to continue going, H would have to too. H is agreeable to that. So, I guess I will continue to go, in the hopes it will continue to do H some good, which I am sure it will. This ST has been amazing in just about half a dozen sessions and I have seen a lot of improvement in H. There is no way I am stopping that now


Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)