Wow, she puts her father before you? That's bazaar. As far as her putting the OM ahead of you, that is a phase and I think it will go away eventually. I think she is really messed up right now. I would definately give your support for her and tell her that you will be there for her.

It can't hurt only help. Im sorry I couldn't offer any more advice to you, but I will pray that it works. If she only knew what she was missing.

Blessings~

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
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porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.