WAW1978's adventures in DB'ing

[waw1978]

Yes H I really am a WAW. I am just one that made the plan to escape, enacted it really half-assed and then thought better of it once H seemed to want to go to counseling and make an effort. I really want him to work with me on the M. Its what most WAS wanted for a long time before the bomb but some have a more hardlined attitude than I. Once they made up their mind, that was it. On with the separation & D. I am no better. I am just a disgustingly optimistic person. As soon as he seemed to be making an effort, I opened my mind to the possiblity. But yes, he is being a blockhead and not getting it. Which is driving me back to the escape plan rather rapidly. I see many trips to the atty's office and nasty custoday battle ahead. My H is going to fight me tooth and nail for everything we have. Also part of the reason I was really into working things out. He is the type that will make the rest of my life as miserable as possible. Again, I have a wife in most ways, not a husband.

Plus, I know we share a daughter. She is my priority. If there is any way I can manage to stay married to her Dad, I am going to try. My own parents went through a nasty D. Granted, I think now in retrospect them staying married would have been complete torture and I would be far more scarred than I already am.