Really? You think it's soooooo vague? Seriously? I know you are in pain CeMar, I know you are lacking things in your marriage...but even I can see some pretty major things in YOUR attitude towards your wife that need to be addressed, that could make a very big difference in your marriage...and in getting you to the place you would like to be in your marriage, or at the very least closer to what you want and in a happier place...it's really not so vague as "could be anything", you have some DEFINITE things you need to work on and people have pointed them out to you time and time again. It's up to you to acknowledge those things and start taking responsibility for them...and working on them. If you don't, then not one of us here can help you, only you can help yourself. Hmmm...seems to remind me of a quote from the Bible, you should know which one I'm referring to.
