Lessons from a former WAS

[thegoodfight]

Hi all,

I have noticed a lot of posts that reference and share stories about having a WAS and why the do it and how to bring them back. I would be happy to answer questions since I was a WAS and now I am trying to prevent my M for entering the D.

I had an affair, I am not proud of it, I do not condone or justify them, but perhaps I can share some insight as to what contributed to it, and how to prevent it and understand what your WAS is going through. I also have witnessed what my W. is going through as the one who was cheated on and what emotions may come into play once your WAS returns or decides they want to stay with you.

My goal is to contribute to this group and hopefully help my own situation. I am not looking for; it is all right, just want to share and maybe give some of you some much needed hope and information.