Its a total lie the person she claims to be going with she avoids when we go to her town for a family reunion. She made it up for kids and evryone else. The only people that know the truth are her sister, another friend and their husbands.
I just got home from work she is upstairs talking to him all giggly and stuff. At the computer is her print out of travel document. Boy it sure would be fun to send her to Texas or Alaska on her return flight. No i won't do that. She Gets into Fargo on her return flight at noon we live 1hr away. We live in North Dakota and om lives in North Carolina.
I cant stop him from texting but I can ask her not to. One time he texted while we where all sitting eating supper. I confronted her later and she said how is he supposed to know we were eating. Personally I think he ment to but thats just my opinion.
I sleep in the spare room, two rooms down the hall. My clothes are still in our room. In the morning(when i'm on normal hours) I go in and get my clothes and she is still sleeping. Before I started db'ing and still doing all the wrong things (pushing her away) it was kind of an ultamatum either I move out or go in spare room so she can have space to figure things out(if she wanted om, single, or me). Also before I saw lawyer and know she cant kick me out.
This morning I told her I was going to take a class on rock climbing in Fargo on sat and d16 couldnt go she had to work. part of my gal. maybe I'll take my bike and hit the trails again. I just want to get home before d11 returns from grandma's house.
I really don't know what else I can do at this point.
