Been reading through your posts off and on for the last few days. Don't want to sound like an ass, but here I go anyway.
First, yeah, you're W has gone off the deepend and your willingness to work things through with her is commendable. We're all in that situation to one degree or another.
One thing that strikes me in all of your posts is that you are a smart dude. In your first or second post, you mentioned you've got a genius level IQ. Wunderbar. Don't make a damn bit of difference here. You've got an air of sardonic detachment to your thoughts on your W. Do you really respect her? You keep saying that you've been the soul of light and wonderfulness in your interactions with her, but are you sure you're not carrying over that attitude to your interactions with her? That might just be how you're detaching, I use humor to do the same thing.
It's just that I detect a whiff of superiority to it all throughout your posts. Like you're above all of this and it's all happening on a plane lower than the one on which you exist. Is your W picking up on that?
If you're W is stll seeing OM, you almost have to to maintain your sanity. Yet, if you still want to get her back you're going to have to give her you -- not your brain.
Anyway. Rip me a new one, agree, or write a witty response (hell, or combine all three).
Hang in there. Nothing but best wishes for you.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
