1. Even before you found about about the casino, it's clear that she was having an affair. You gave us the classic clues. She was lying to you. 2. Yes, she wanted to be married. But, dude, she'd probably do the same things if she was married to you. If she's so relgious, she wouldn't be sleeping with you. So her commitment to "traditional" values is rather thin: pre-marital sex is OK, why wouldn't extra-marital sex be OK? It seem she has no problems consistently violating her "ethical" scruples. 3. If you still really want to save this relationship -- read the book, Divorce Remedy. It'll help stop all the mistakes you are making. 4. And for your heart and passion: read The Way of the Superior Man. It will help you get your sh*t together so you can become the kind of man you want to be. By the way, the reason she's cheating is because you are unclear about your mission in life. Women tend not to leave strong, clear, honest, open and passionate men. 5. By the way. You aren't married to her. You made no promises to her; she made no promises to you. Yes, it hurts, but she did nothing "unethical" in cheating on you, unless you both implicitly promised exclusivity. But, then, you took no vows or solemn oaths. Think about it.
