I went home for supper she was making lasagna planned to eat at 6:00. I got there and they had already ate, w is on the computer. She said they couldnt wait. W/these stupid hours this week I thought it would be nice to eat together. So i sat at the table and ate and left w/out another word to her.
Good work.
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Before work I asked what she is telling the kids about her leaving to see om. She said the same as last time (going to mineapolis w/college girl friend).
Is that a lie? Is her girlfriend going with her?
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I really dont want to be home when she returns but it is on a tuesday. I may take the day off work and take kids to valley fair (thats in mineapolis). I really dont know if I can afford it though. Any other suggestions? I dont know what time she gets in.
Find out when she's coming back. Just ask her around what time her flight gets in. If she asks why, you tell her you just want to make sure she gets in OK. Where does the OM live?
Then take the kids on a cheap outing. Picnic? Rock climbing? Hiking? Field trip to interesting town? Swimming?
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As far as her talking to om she does it in her room or in basement. I have walked in on her several times(not on purpose) I didnt know she was in there. Or she will be getting something in kitchen and keep talking to him while she gets it, then leaves.
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When i hear her ringtone for an incoming text message my heart stops. this happens all the time and really bothers me. She does text back right in front of me.
Ask her to text message him not in front of you. Ask her to go to basement or her room. You are NOT invisible.
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I think while she is gone i will get used to our bed again and tell her she is welcome to sleep in it but to stay on her side.
Explain to me why you are sleeping in the basement when SHE's the one having an affair.
If you want, go-ahead and sleep YOUR bed. Move your clothes back in. If she wants "space", have her sleep in the basement.
